Interesting relationship advise I received via a friend....your thoughts???? Guys/ men dont invest emotionally early on in a relationship. Not until they are sure about u.it can take them months or even years to decide if u are the one.if he shows interest in u, thats all it is interest. It doesnt mean u are in a solid relationship yet.Married ladies, if he promises u something thats all it is a promise. Dont get excited until his actions match his words. The reason why women hurt so easily is because u give him access to your heart & everything before he has proved himself worthy. Once u give him all these things earlier on, he has no reason to keep chasing. His interest in u dwindles. Stop with expectations (sp single women) earlier on in ur relationships & ull live a more free-er life, you wont react to every little thing he does. Stop imagining ur wedding day before he has even proposed, stop imagining a future with him. Stop playing wife to him.Live in the moment. if those things happen great, if not u wont be shattered coz u didnt have any expectations.Have ur own life, ur own interests & ur partner potential suitor or husband will find u interesting. Show him u want him but dont need him. Theres a big difference. Men are turned off by clinginess, Keep calm and cool.Last & most important point. The one who cares the least controls the relationship. Even if u do, dont need to show him that everyday. Let him be the one who loves u more. Women were not engineered to chase for a mans attention & affections, its the other way around😉. Wives, change ur weekend routine or ur wardrobe once in a while, colour ur hair, do an exciting activity together as a couple. Never let him think u are predictable, it will keep him wanting u! The minute he finds u boring his eye will start to wander.
Posted on: Tue, 01 Apr 2014 04:26:23 +0000
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