Intrestinnnn a must read HOW TO TREAT UR STINGY PARTNER A situation where a spouse is perceived not to be so open-handed does not always augur well for relationships. But in order to keep your union with that partner whom you love, how would you handle his or her stinginess?KATE ANI asks. Ify Nwosu Men should be generous with what they have, however little it is. It’s about showing your partner that you value her and care about her. You don’t have to break a bank for that. If my partner is the stingy kind of person, I will tell him that it is either he meets up to my demand, at least 50 per cent of it, or another man will take care of his responsibility. A woman feels loved and appreciated when her husband showers her with gifts and money, no matter how little they are. Ayomiposi Ajayi Once you get married, there is no more “mine,” there is only “ours.” Sometimes, it is the wife that is better at handling and planning the monthly budget, and sometimes, it is the husband. But when the hubby keeps it all secret and just hands an allowance to the wife, that puts a strain on the whole team work thing and turns it into a bossy kind of relationship. Tolu Ajibade My ex-boyfriend seemed to be born a stingy man, but he was a kind person. As kind as he was, he would prefer to keep all his money in the bank and would not buy anything unless he thought it was absolutely necessary. He was stingy to himself also. Kunbi Olawale If a woman cannot spend wisely, then the husband can take the control, but not in a stingy way. The husband must give before his wife asks. A good provider gives without being asked. Funke Wonuola A stingy man is a stingy man, either you cope with it or you walk away. I was once there. If you like, buy him everything, he will keep quiet and take them all and tell you “thank you.” Bimbo Akintade Money is not, and should not be, the bottom line in a relationship. We should also know that it is very important that we express love through something physical and tangible, and giving should not be one sided in a relationship. Subomi Olamijulo Guys, what manner of men are you that you would not, from time to time, get your woman a present, no matter how small? It is really unfair! I once dated one stingy guy. Whenever I asked for his financial assistance, he gave me one excuse or the other, but when it was time for being intimate, he promised me heaven and earth. Nike Lawal I would rather have a poor man who worships the ground I walk on than a rich ‘enemy.’ However, if a man is really serious, he shouldn’t forget his partner’s birthday. Even if it is a little token gift, he should go out of his way to put a smile on his woman’s face. I am a self-supported woman and I earn as much as my guy. I don’t expect anyone to give me anything, but still, those small things count. Damilola Sowemimo I have heard of many stingy boyfriend scenarios and it is sad that these guys do exist in the 21st Century. You meet a fine lady that wears designer clothes, fixes a Brazilian hair and uses the latest kinds of mobile phones. She agrees to be your girlfriend and then you refuse to maintain her level that attracted you to her in the first place. I hate greedy and stingy men. I would never stay with a guy with such traits. Leave him or you will turn to a greedy woman yourself! Lamide Daniels Generally, a stingy person has the fear of waste and they express this insecurity by attempting to control all their expenses. Anuoluwapo Adesegun Sometimes, it could be that he does not have and we assume that he does and thereby label him as stingy. The only way you should believe he has money but doesn’t want to share is when you see him spending it on new clothes, shoes, cars, gadgets for himself and gives you excuses when you demand something from him. If you don’t see any of these things, then, the problem isn’t that he’s stingy. Sarah Obidipe My ex-boyfriend was very stingy. He doesn’t buy me my necessities. He gives money to his family and does not give me anything. Dare Afolabi Some ladies exaggerate in their spending. They ask for too many things and want to have them immediately without even bothering about how we toil day and night to make money. And when you tell them to have patience or to reason with you on why you can’t afford the luxury of what they are demanding, they label you as a stingy man. Men don’t like women who are constantly demanding for money. We don’t see them as a wife material but as side kicks. They should get jobs and earn their own money!
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