It has always been my view that when you decide to pursue a new relationship, you should be in as stable, and clean a position as possible. This applies to both monogamy and non-monogamy. With the former, if you’re still shattered and depressed from a break-up, chances are you’re not bringing your best self to the table. With the latter, if your other relationships are in a bit of a state, it might not be the best idea to bring someone new into it. Of course, there are exceptions, and sometimes we make connections we feel we need to pursue, even if the timing is bad, and sometimes meeting someone new is the way we get over the heartbreak of a past relationship. But as a general rule of thumb, I think it’s best to be in as good a place as possible before diving into a new relationship......
Posted on: Fri, 14 Jun 2013 02:10:53 +0000