It has been a really hard and mind numbing last few days. One of my dearest and loyal friends went home to be with our Lord. I have fought back tears and the deep pain that gripped my heart. I tried to find words to encourage and console his family members whom are also dear and loving friends as well. The words did not come. I dont know, but my mind would not let my heart speak. I hope everyone knows how this man was more than a friend but more like family. The older brother to hold high on a pedestal. A man who listened more than he spoke. He heard and guided me many a time. It was early in my 15th year of life that I first met G Larry Kincaid. As a greenhorn teenager, I loved playing basketball with the guys at a small park court on W.9th Ave. Larry showed up one day with a brand new ball, walked up on the court and began dribbling and shooting. We all struck up a conversation with Larry and was immediately taken by his candor. The guys consisted of a small group of guys of varied ages 13 to 19. Kenny Hayes and brother, The Willard brothers and occasionally there was other boys from around the neighborhood would meet there. We all became great friends with Larry and admired him for his service in the Marine Corps. We also admired his backward jump shot with a full twist all the way to the rim. And he had one cool Jeep!!! I soon turned 16 and was a little bit in a hurry in life and got married to young lady that lived next door to the Kincaids.. Looking back I know now I was way to young to start so young into a relationship of that much seriousness. But that is another story. I know that much of my early years was full of turmoil at times but all worked out eventually. For years Larry and I would share lots of life events . We both jumped into the CB Craze in the 70s. We later had a energy crisis and we both cut wood together. We labored pretty hard out there in the woods to bring home something to heat with. I remember all the dreams we both shared of building the ultimate log home. We would sometimes talk for hours on the phone about plans and etc. Mercy sakes! We loved the outdoors and the simple life .... what can I say! I have to say that of all the things I admired Larry for, His dedication and love for his family and his walk with the Lord is the best! He dedicated his life to his wife Marsha and his children. Debbie is one of his crowning jewels. Debbie in one word is Awesome! I could write a book but I guess I can should keep it short for now. The last time I saw Larry was a couple months ago while in Lexington on a trip from Tennessee. I had come to see him after hearing of his illness while I was there. We had one great visit! He was bright eyed and full of spirit. We caught up on life and I presented my wife Sheryl whom he had not met yet. He was wonderful. I hated to leave that day but when we were saying our goodbyes, I offered him my hand and he told me that wasnt enough and I agreed! He gave me the biggest hug. We both shared a deep moment of brotherhood. I tried not show it then but I somehow knew it might be our last meeting. Late at night when all is quiet, I share my thoughts with the Lord and thank him for the years I was given to know a great friend in life. One that many men never experience. I know a song that I listen to. It comforts me when I have a troubled heart. Id like to post it here with the hopes that Larrys family might also gain some comfort and know he is ok! To each of Larrys Mother, Brothers and sister, I send my Prayers and Love. To Marsha I send my Prayers and Love but with a footnote, I too lost someone to cancer. After a while you will know that He is still there forever sewn in your heart. Every stitch is the undying love you both shared. Find a moment each day to reflect and smile. To Larrys Children, I send Prayers and Love. Always remember you are his pride, joy and part of his very being. A Fathers love goes deeper than any child will ever know. To my dearest friend, Ill Miss You here, Ill grieve but I will always celebrate your life!! Semper Fi Marine! Till we meet again! youtu.be/c7mltTaIdUU
Posted on: Mon, 19 Jan 2015 03:34:44 +0000
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