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It is the one subject on which we are both experts and amateurs, simultaneously. We can talk all night on the phone to our friends about it, yet we are hard pressed to define it... Like some weird chemical from another planet, it floats through the air and does things to us. It makes us carefree, confident , full of good will and generous spirit, happy to be alive. But sometimes it turns us crazy, fearful, ravingly insecure and relentlessly weepy, wishing we were dead.It hits us out of the blue across crowded rooms, when we least ecpect it. Sometimes it is a cloud that buoys us through the air or a wave that sweeps us away. Other times it is a bolt of lightning or an electric chair that fries our brains. We call it lots of different things, particularly in retrospect. Its energy looking for an attachment. Or passion we have confused with caring. It is physical. Or cerebral. Or just one of those things. When it is great, it is heaven, when it is bad, its slumming. To be concise, we call it love ♥♥ Love IS NOT envious, boastful, proud (self glorifying), rude, self seeking or easily angered, and it does not hold stuff against one another! Rather, love IS patient, kind, truthful, protecting, and hopeful, it never fails, but always perseveres with the other person, even when it is hard and you don’t really feel like doing it! In other words, love is other-person-centred. It is all about putting the person who you love first, even before yourself… and sometimes at your own expense! But nowadays love has turned to Lust... So… you see a girl (or boy… if you’re a girl) walking across the playground at school. They glance over your direction, only to see you staring right at them with a stunned look on your face! You quickly pretend that you are looking at something else! You start to sweat a little… you try to play it cool, but on the inside your guts do a triple somersault, with a half twist and a few pirouette’s for good measure. Then as she wanders into the distance giggling with her friends, you’re left sitting there like an idiot, with a billion thoughts and feelings pulsing through you, most of which are confusing, and you have no idea what to do with… you know you like her… but is it more than that? Do I love her? Or is it just that you think she’s hot? lust stems from a sinful heart. At the core of lust lies selfishness, disrespect, and a lack of self control. It is self centred and is all about putting your desires first, wothout giving a thought to the person you are lusting after... This generally plays out differently for guys and girls. Usually guys lust after the physical i.e. what they can see or touch, whereas for girls it’s usually more emotionally based i.e. what makes them feel good or special. But of course, everyone is different and this is not always the case for everyone. In the modern era we could clearly see lovers murderong each other, creating MMSs when the demands are not fulfilled...etc etc.... BOY/GIRL-I love u...Do u love me?? BOY/GIRL - No?? then go..... :3 the same person to another girl..... BOY/GIRL - I love u.. Do u love me?? ......... and the same process continues :p Love is........... Tumak napale mori jaam :3 Tumatke vaal pale gusi jaam :p :D #hope_so_u_all_were_not_bored :p #uff_haat_bikhai_gol_likhi_likhi Happy Reading :)
Posted on: Sun, 12 Oct 2014 08:47:45 +0000

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