It is understandable that it may be shocking to see what looks like a parade or a three-ring circus in the middle of a grocery store. But, cut these frazzled moms some slack. Were probably doing the best we know how to keep them all under control while still getting our errands done. If you must say something, make sure its polite, non-intrusive and helpful. Try: What beautiful children! Great job, Mom! What well-behaved children you have. A verbal pat on the back is always better than a statement or question that may add to the stress of the situation. Consider whether you would want someone to ask you that question before you ask it. Some thoughtless statements can hurt, like pouring salt in a wound. If you must say something, keep it positive, uplifting or some way helpful to these moms that are doing the best they can. Remember the popular rule, If you cant say something nice, dont say anything at all.
Posted on: Thu, 26 Jun 2014 06:33:36 +0000