Its a difference between Advising and Bashing. One is done with a sincere heart and the other one is done with bad and hateful intentions,, both from the heart and come out into your actions. So if I said Yall sisters is so ugly and Yall stank,, Yall need to wash up, and Yall dont pray! Yall always posting about Men, you need to go pray and read a book,, now is that sincere???? LAAAAAA! Now if I said Weve been slipping up lately Sistas, we gotta get back on the right page, and I am here if you need a push. Is that Bashing???? LAAAAAA! That was sincere advice... So when we bash and call it sincere advice, STOP IT! No its not and we ourselves know when were being mean or truly sincere. There are rules to advising and the best way to advise is away from the ppl because we dont wanna embarrass the person and get them laughed at, nor do we wanna fall into Showing off! So its beneficial on both ends, youre not only protecting that persons feelings but youre protecting yourself from falling into minor shirk!
Posted on: Wed, 03 Dec 2014 15:25:54 +0000
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