Its been a while since we have chatted...or I guess you could say Ive gone off on one of my tangents.....so sit down this is going to take a minute... Lately my life has been turned upside down by LIARS! Because I tend to believe the people I care about... And because I dont lie to them. Why do people lie? Because they make choices that they know are going to hurt you and they dont have the balls to face the consequences...they dont want to deal with the pain they cause. This actually does more damage... When a person lies you can feel it, see it, things dont add up, their words dont match their actions. When you go to them with your feelings that something is amiss and they lie to you...it makes you question your own sense of reality...you can see ..feel...you know somethings wrong, but this person you trust and often love is telling you that you are all wrong so you turn it around on yourself and say is it me...is there something twisted in me that is causing me to feel this...and it will eat you from the inside out...Im going to pause here and say...if you are this kind of person, if you lack the balls to stand behind your choices do me a favor and unfriend me now...then take your ass to the nearest freeway and step out in front of a mac truck... Because if you lie to me you will be dead to me anyway. Im not perfect... im the first to admit if Im wrong, and sometimes my truthfulness hurts others, because lord knows the truth comes spilling out of me like a tidal wave...but know Id dive in and pull you out. The next time you are tempted to lie to someone make the choice to stand behind what you have done.... Face the consequences of your choices... You do far less damage to a person telling the truth and allowing them the choice to decide how they will react...than twisting their heart and mind into knots that sometimes becomes so tangled it can not be undone.... Walk softly...do no harm....and with grace let go of that which is not meant for you...on a lighter note whoever invented these wasabi green bean crunchy thingies rocks! Namnamnamnamnam
Posted on: Fri, 14 Nov 2014 17:11:34 +0000
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