Its important to keep in mind that nobody is exactly going to fit all the traits of an abusive or personality disordered person as described in my writings or in the articles that I share. But just because somebodys behavior does not exactly fit what Im writing about here, or doesnt exactly fit an article you read online, does not mean that you are not being abused. That was my mistake in dealing with my abuser - he did not quite fit every trait and criteria of an abuser or narcissist when I looked things up online, so I discounted my own instincts. The very fact that I suspected he was abusing me and he was a narcissist, and was driven to look up information about it, was in itself a very red flag. In a normal relationship I would have felt no need to look those things up and see if I was being abused. If you are feeling abused, controlled, threatened, or afraid, you are being abused and need help. Even if what is happening to you doesnt fit exactly what I write about here, or doesnt exactly fit the red flags in articles that I share. If you are here checking out this page because you suspect you are being abused or you suspect your significant other or former significant other is personality disordered, your instincts have led you to seek out this information for a reason and are worth paying attention to.
Posted on: Thu, 02 Oct 2014 21:11:58 +0000
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