Its not our job to constantly take care of others needs before our own. If we are taking care of ourselves in a manor that is not rude or inappropriate and others see or view it as such, then that is their problem, not ours. We have a responsibility to care for ourselves and put how we feel first. When we come from a place of authenticity, caring, respect and honor - we are not responsible for how others view our actions, but only how genuine we ourselves are being. Some of us have been taught to take on the responsibility of taking care of others needs at the expense of our own; and that we are selfish if we dont always put others needs before ours. This is a disempowering way of living, and absolutely unnecessary. We can take care of ourselves in a way that is healthy and if others choose to be offended and live in a place of judgement - then what they think of us is none of our business. Taking on responsibility for what others think of us or how they see us causes high blood pressure and stress and strain on the physical body as well as in our relationships with others. Having healthy boundaries for ourselves, letting go of what others think, and living according to our own code of honor and integrity is a
Posted on: Sun, 26 Jan 2014 03:13:27 +0000
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