Ive come to realize, breakups occur in stages. The first stage is dealing with the devastation of separation. The feeling of inadequacy and questioning..what did I do to deserve this? Why doesnt he or she love me? Why was I not good enough? The next stage is one of autopilot, you go about your life living as if youre okay, but deep down...you question yourself as to how youre ever going to get through it..you wonder about your future and try to think of it without THAT person in it when before it was THAT person you revolved your world around. You still have that pain, that is intermittent and more like a haunting that peeks its ugly head when you hear that song or find his or her clothing somewhere randomly while cleaning or doing laundry...the smell of their cologne or perfume haunts you when you catch the scent here or there...Then, the final stage when you realize that although you love that person..its okay not to be with them because youre gonna be okay! You dont dread sleeping alone anymore, you might even appreciate the extra room in your bed. You dont just forget or fall out of love with them..but you start to fall in love with the idea of falling in love again....you begin to relearn how to focus on YOURSELF again. There is much reflection and learning...but you learn to live again.... Goodnight Fb ❤️
Posted on: Mon, 09 Jun 2014 05:54:24 +0000
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