Ive talked until Im blue in the face and nothing changes. It doesnt matter if you have said this about a boss, an employee, a coworker, a friend, a parent, a spouse or a child. What does matter is that you are making yourself upset because you forgot the first rule of living on this planet. You cant change someone else if they dont want to change. It doesnt matter if you have the very best intentions or if you are doing it out of a deep love and caring for the other person. You cant change someone else if they dont want to change. You can guilt, bribe, ignore, threaten or shame but the result will be temporary at best. So what am I suppose to do? Just sit idly by and let them ruin their lives, their career, their relationship, their health, etc.? Emphatically NO! You are not suppose to sit idly by. You are suppose to follow the second rule of living on this planet. You are suppose to work on you. You are supposed to aspire and work toward excellence in every aspect of your own life. Your duty is to become loving, caring, compassionate and even-tempered. Your duty is to embrace all that is good and project the optimism that comes from living a spirit centered life. In other words, you are to become the best example of what you talk about. If someone is inclined to change, your example will be their blueprint. Your words may be ignored or forgotten but the image of who you have become will never leave them. If, every day, you work on your happiness, honesty, love and being non-judgemental you will become worthy of being copied. Thats your reward. If someone in your life tries to change themselves because of your example, thats a bonus. (c)2013 All Rights Reserved, Patrick McBride PatrickInspires Facebook - Sundrops On Life
Posted on: Tue, 22 Oct 2013 04:46:57 +0000
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