I’m becoming more aware of how frequently we get our feelings - TopicsExpress



          

I’m becoming more aware of how frequently we get our feelings hurt due to the meaning we assign to someone’s behavior more than to their actual behavior. We are tempted to think that their actions, of lack of them, means those people don’t care, are selfish, or aren’t good friends. So much of what’s upsetting us isn’t actual wrong-doing, it’s feeling like people should just be like us and do things the way we think is best. We’re getting our panties all twisted because people aren’t living up to our unknown expectations…. Which leaves me wondering if the greater problem isn’t on us for better clarifying our needs rather then on them for not just guessing them?
Posted on: Sun, 16 Jun 2013 01:41:34 +0000

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