Jealousy – crossing the line Demanding your attention all the time. Constantly wanting to know where you are and who you’re with. Flying into a rage and making you scared to upset them. Controlling your social life or who you talk to. Making you feel bad for wanting to see your family or friends. Texting you all the time to check what you are doing. Constantly accusing you of flirting. Making you give up working, studying or doing things you like. Telling you who you can and can’t talk to. Hurting you or abusing you because you made them jealous. Reading your messages online or on your mobile. This behaviour is a sign of control, not love. No one has the right to control who you talk to or who you’re friends with. Your social life shouldn’t have to stop because of your GF’s or BF’s jealousy. Jealousy which is also known as a mental cancer and a jaundice of the soul is basically a type of emotion that instills in you negative thoughts, fear, insecurity, anxiety and all the negative feelings that one can think of. It is referred to as a combination of different emotions which may be anger, inadequacy, disgust, resentment and helplessness. It can be seen in people of every age. We all have experience this emotion at least once in our lives as it is not possible for anyone to control it completely in spite of knowing that it is bad and even agreeing with this fact. As to every fact there are some reasons behind it, similarly to prove the fact that jealousy is bad, there are many reasons behind it. This article lists the top ten reasons that why jealousy is considered as a completely useless emotion and why you should stay away from it and not let it control you and thereby destroy your life. Jealousy is also considered bad as it will make you sad and will develop a sense of fear in you for everything. You will start feeling miserable about yourself as no one will be there with you. Moreover, it will affect your thinking and you will only see the negative side of everything. Because of this you will also not be able to do or start anything new in life as the fear that jealousy had instilled in you will stop you from doing that. Therefore, you not let this emotion of jealousy influence you so much as it can make you a pathetic, fearful, sad, miserable and a pessimistic person and thus it is best if you stay away from jealousy. Social life is basically the time that we spend with other people doing enjoyable things and during that time we keep aside all the tension and worries of our lives. Socializing around with different people also have many advantages such as it helps you to make new friends, develop new career connections and who knows you can even find your soul mate. If you will let jealousy get hold of you, then all you will have in mind is how to insult someone and prove your superiority. No one likes to be around such people who will spoil their mood as people gather socially to have fun and to forget about their problems. And thus jealousy will ruin your social life to a great extent as no one would want to socialize with you and you will be deprived of all the benefits of socializing. As we all know that a jealous person is also a fearful and sad one. So, if you will let jealousy get heavy on you, you will be one among them who will fear about everything. Also, all these things will lead to all the more tension and stress which will ultimately affect your health and will thus give rise to many health problems such as heart diseases, asthma, obesity, diabetes, headaches, accelerated aging, premature death and many more. Moreover, the negative thinking that jealousy develops in you will affect your mind and thus will give rise to depression and anxiety which will make you mentally ill. Therefore, jealousy can make you both mentally and physically ill and that is why you should try and keep this emotion under control. It is most often said that if you are jealous then you are not in love. Jealousy will inculcate a fear of losing your special someone in you. Then because of this fear, you will start doubting your soul mate and thus you will not trust your other half. As we all know that trust is the pillar of any relationship and if it is broken then there is no relationship left. Jealousy is that emotion that will prevent you from trusting your loved one and will thus take away your special someone away from you. Thus, jealousy can also take away the most special person of your life if not controlled at the right time and that is the reason it is also called as the grave of affection. Now how can this be a sign of love its a sign of pain in someones life and the desire for help! Wducate yourselves people the world is diesing fro lack of wisdom! To this many will judge me because they them selves know not true peace and true love in there lives so please do not LIKE the negative ststements from a friend help a friend with there pain understand your friends pain and motives in life!
Posted on: Wed, 11 Sep 2013 17:11:46 +0000
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