Jesus tells us that, instead of talking about the offense with others, we should speak to the erring person, not to criticize but to show the person his (or her) fault and invite him (or her) to repent (Lev. 19:17). With a spirit of meekness and tender love, we should make every pos-sible attempt to help the person see his (or her) mistake, allowing him (or her) to repent and apologize. It is very important not to put the person to shame by making his (or her) error public. That would make the offender’s recovery much more difficult.Ideally, the private conversation will lead to repentance and recon-ciliation. However, if the offender does not admit wrongdoing, or is unwilling to make things right, the next recourse is to take one or two witnesses (Deut. 19:15) in an effort to persuade the erring person. They should not be personally involved in the situation in order to be in a better position to call the offender to repentance. If the offender refuses to hear their counsel, they can bear witness to the efforts that have been made on his (or her) behalf.Finally, and only if the first two attempts have failed, we should “tell it to the church”—not yet for a disciplinary action but for an ultimate appeal to lead to repentance. From the beginning, the whole process has a redemptive goal (Gal. 6:1).
Posted on: Fri, 22 Aug 2014 08:53:00 +0000
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