Jon and I worked together for for over 20 years we were side by side 24/7/365...he would get up at 3 every morning go run the registers and check everything take a drive around town then come home and wake me up with a kiss and a cup of hot coffee.....his is always the first voice I hear in the morning no matter where I am and usually the last at night. Weve only had 2 serious issues ever...Im a polar bear and hes ummm not :) Im 65 hes 80..temperature wise...the other is I like my steaks well done...we agree to disagree when hes wrong :). I cant count how many times a day we say I love you...after every conversation...he taught me just because you argue doesnt mean its over...you get over it, around it, under it and through it....Ive learned when I cry it breaks his heart and if someone has hurt me in any way...he doesnt stay silent..if I am wrong he stands beside me but he tells me Im wrong. He pops candy in my mouth at church when he thinks I need to be silent. We lied to each other all the time about how we are feeling (medically) when we were too far apart to do anything about it and we both always know it... He puts up with me being grouchy, bossy, and stubborn. He loves me through it. He knows Im fine. means I need to be hugged and kissed...he loves to irritate, aggravate, & torture a worm til it bites you. He hated computers for years because he was out working, seeing , and experiencing now its his window into a world he cant physically be in the way he used to be. Silent for many years he has the freedom to express his opinion. I used to become so angry when people would disagree then their final argument was he couldnt spell or type correctly. Hes dyslexic. What most people dont know is he is open minded and he is who he is and his mind can be changed with the right words. I dont even agree with everything he says but I respect his right to express it. Facebook has helped his winter depression. He always called my mom when I was sick because when I threw up he did... ;) but this same man chose to take care of his brother when he had cancer night & day. When his mom fell and dementia set in he did the same night and day...he changed her diapers and kept her home as long as she was safe. Just a little backstory into the man I love, admire, and would lay down my life...
Posted on: Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:19:17 +0000
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