Just a little article on making changes. I write articles on other sites and like to give a little advice when possible. You could relate it to any part of your life really. I trained as a Therapist many moons ago but felt one to one wasnt for me . I have always kept up my reading on many subjects with a bit of lifes lessons thrown in there too. It may help somebody out there who wants to make changes and doesnt know where to start Anyone looking for changes in life needs to realize that in order to have those changes you need to make your own changes. This is a little advice on some simple changes that need to be applied before going on any further. We all come from all walks of life and every ones situation is different but one thing is clear and that is we all want to improve our particular situations. So advising can be very difficult. We allow certain things to effect us or block us from moving on. Whether it is a family matter or otherwise ,it all comes down to the same thing. “We have learned to be this way” . There are countless books delving into the psychology of the mind and all the different stages of human evolution but one thing is very evident in all and that is our teachers (parents,relatives, friends etc) mold our reality to this very point. At the same time we have molded our reality into theirs . Our job is creating our own reality and move away from the many unlearned lessons passed on by our inner circle of Guides and teachers.Some of these lessons are extremely difficult to walk away from as they are ingrained into our minds with our own understanding of what we see life as and inner conflict is born. As a general rule, if you are in a situation you do not like then simple change it.. There is no exception to this rule. “Stop doing the things that make you unhappy and begin to do things that make you happy”. That seems like an easy thing to do but is more difficult than you would think. Try it for one day and see the changes. Remember all the simple things that made you happy, old hobbies, old friends, maybe some thing you used to do and don’t do anymore. Avoid people who make you feel bad about yourself. You give yourself enough grief (conscious or unconscious) without others involving themselves in your business. Stop criticizing others, you have no right to judge anyone ever. If you find yourself criticizing then realize that you are unconsciously criticizing yourself. People that are happy in their lives will rarely criticize anyone. There are so many solutions out there , in my opinion way too many and confusing ones . For those of you who are struggling with where you are going in your lives or what others might think of you . Remember this !! Do the things you love to do and you will find yourself getting more confident. Avoid Criticism in all shape or form and never ever let anyone make you feel bad about yourself . Someone who knows who they are by simply being themselves will have endless opportunities. There is no age restriction with this simple method but also challenging one. It takes you from your unhappy comfort zone to where you need to go. Once you get a taste of that potential that’s lays inside of you then you will never want to go back to that unhappy Place again…
Posted on: Fri, 29 Nov 2013 19:34:30 +0000
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