Just because someone doesnt mention the persons name... doesnt mean it wont be obvious whom you are talking about. . . in small social settings / work, school, church, clubs, family, ect. ect. ... its not fair nor honest to speak for the person not present. If you want to know how someone is doing, pick up the phone, or spend time with them... otherwise what you hear from others is just an opinion, and often in this busy life people are not involved in the lives as others, unless its important to them. ... point is.. just because a person isnt around, doesnt give you the right to talk about them, speak for them, or go by gossip... if you really wanted to know how a person is doing, you wouldnt ask someone else, youd ask them.. go to the source! its not rocket science! Ive had countless women and men gossip to me about other peoples personal life.. and yes I called them out lovingly.. but this tells me allot about what people will do in order to convince others of theyre opinion.. opinions are like credit cards... some people use them wisely and some people dont. .. theres a huge difference from gossip and a cry for help, between getting advice discreetly to a few people, and telling every person you come in contact with.. gossip is usually malicious in intent and it aims to frame the person a certain way.. and usually is used against that person.. and why? ... thats a whole nutha thesis.
Posted on: Mon, 25 Nov 2013 05:44:19 +0000
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