Just finished watching one of Adam Sandler s most serious performances. Movie called: Reign over Me. Amazing movie. The movie got me thinking of how we all SUFFER/ENDURE some sort of pain in our lives. Whether it be present or past-the reality is we all know and have felt pain once upon a time. I found myself really thinking hard after this movie (since I am an extreme deep thinker). I pondered the thought: how sometimes (speaking from myself) in my path, I couldnt stand certain people because of the way they were. The way they acted, reacted, or even behaved. The HURT only know how to HURT! Thats just fact. Reality is WE ALL SUFFER PAIN, or have SUFFERED PAIN once twice or many times in our lives. Some of us, DONT even know that we are still suffering and our behavior shows it. In the movie Charlie, (Adam Sandlers character) had a friend who literally took the time to care.A rare gift: PATIENCE Sometimes thats all we need-someone to care about us genuinely. Not some bull shit friend who says they care, but the loses it when we say something to them that hurts and they walk away. Thats what I call some half way bull shit friend. Talk is cheap. Show me the heart!! It takes a lot of lessons in life to attain that sort of Godly Unconditional love we hurting people need. A LOVE WITHOUT JUDGMENT! A Love with PURE ACCEPTANCE! Many Christian people miss the true meaning: Love, how Jesus Loved you and TRUST ME, none of us are perfect. But we know what it feels like to feel His love-and it is UNCONDITIONAL and He does accept us how we are, messed up, beaten up..and battered and marred-not to mention scarred. LOVE shouldnt hurt if you have or put no expectations. Its not to say, we arent going to hurt each other-cause we will, But when you LOVE without wanting or needing anything from that person, other than, giving the same kind of LOVE youd like given to you....there is absolutely NOTHING TO FEAR. I have a dear wonderful friend whose Love has Reigned Over me and because of that....He has helped me grow a few feet high and has taught me what it feels like to be absolutely loved even when I dont do it right. His UNCONDITIONAL love has taught me that its okay to be me . With him I can be me and even when I mess up and fail NOTHING about my failures makes him love me any less. A new phase in my life. And, in this phase I only want POSITIVE people around me. Its time for me to do me, instead of me, helping others cause I felt it had to be done. I can scream and I can shout, I can go off and I can lose it (not that I want to).....and I will still be told, I am LOVED by my friend and we can go on like nothing ever happened or took place. What a new way of life for me to be surrounded by... when all I ever was surrounded by was fear.... fear of being tossed out, thrown out of someones home cause I was trying to find and be ME. Sigh. I fear nothing now... I dont fear being HOMELESS anymore. I am FREE! youtu.be/Yh2w7-1-ZTw
Posted on: Thu, 23 Oct 2014 11:23:58 +0000
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