Just what I needed to hear today... Had a difficult night last night, a nice night, but a difficult one. Heard some home truths from some unexpected sources which I appreciate immensely, the evening also highlighted problems I already knew I had, much like the last few months have done a totally, with all of it coming to a head toward year end... Having problems is ok so long as you are aware of them and have a plan to deal with them... A plan I am currently developing and much like this little video says, these are things that cant be dealt with alone anymore. The initial reaction to becoming increasingly aware of my short comings is to want to rush in and change then, bite at the bit, race ahead and grasp at what seems like potential fixes. In reality, the best approach is to take a breath, look at the problems, figure out why I have them, how they developed, look at my life style and consider realistic ways to maybe rectify some of those issues... Rather than run away with the fact that things need changing and ultimately be disappointed I made the same mistakes... Be the tortoise, not the hair, we all want change right now, but the truth is, that type of change is rarely lasting potentially doing more harm than good... So Ill take a breather, let the dust settle, examine the problems and consider possibilities for lasting change...
Posted on: Sun, 14 Dec 2014 14:28:37 +0000
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