Just wrapped up in one of Candis scarves I havent worn yet....it - TopicsExpress



          

Just wrapped up in one of Candis scarves I havent worn yet....it smells of her. I try to breathe these scents in deeply because I know it fades. One of the first things my mom and I did after we learned of Buddys passing..was run to his closet and cling to his clothing. The senses connect us, especially scent. There is something primal and ancient about the way we react to scent. There is cologne that reminds me of my dad and brother and Aveeno lotion of Candi. But the smell of the person leaves clothes after awhile. I tried to keep my Dads clothes smelling like him in a giant ziploc bag..only opening it on special occasions. But it faded anyway. Best to keep the clothing close and enjoy it while you can. We always ache for the body..the physical in grief. We have the love because that never changes. Rambling thoughts...
Posted on: Thu, 04 Dec 2014 03:08:27 +0000

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