Ladies, at some point, you have to decide if you really want to hold discussions with men. Do you want to engage, or do you just want us there when you vent? We constantly hear the complaints about how few of us will engage in discussions with you, or how public relationship discussions are always overwhelmingly attended by women. Some of you express that you genuinely want men to participate. If you do, there are some very simple rules to follow: 1--Dont ask questions about men and then get mad when you dont like the answer. 2--Accept what we say as valid, even if you and your girls think men feel or think differently. 3--Dont accuse men of lying and berate them to just be honest when you disagree with the answer. 4--Dont argue with men about how men think based upon your experience with men, unless your experience has been with a substantial portion of the male population in a double blind study (screwing hundreds or thousands of them), or unless you used to have a penis and dated women for a couple of decades. 5--Dont belittle men with bullshit phrases such as: men have fragile egos, or men cant handle the truth, when a man is saying that you are insulting him. Any given man can add to this short list, but if you dont want to accept them, then stop complaining about the low participation of men in relationship forums. Its okay to disagree, but its not okay to disrespect. Remember, those of us who participate arent there for you to simply dump on. The views of manginas and mitches are completely irrelevant.
Posted on: Sat, 05 Apr 2014 15:53:57 +0000
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