Lets get a few things out in the open ,so there is no misunderstandings , I do not like secrets, they lead to things that are not worthy of respect, So I would like to sort a few facts out and try not to offend too many with the truth, There has been a lot of tension in my family back on the Island, I have been hearing and seen for myself what is and has been going on, I and My sisters Donna and Judy have been trying to make peace and are having no luck trying,The problem is Amandas Huspand Robin Cudmore as many of you have read in the Graphic and heard through word of mouth,Had violated Daisy since she was quite young, She reported the abuse to the police and He was taken to court and charged,and was given jail time ,one day short of 2 years I believe,He pleaded guilty,Now their are Amanda,Mildred,Marlene,Stephanie,and whoever else will listen to them believing Daisy is to blame and they want her to be the one punished for Robin being a child molester and a rapist and whatever else you would like to label him as,Judy Fred Donna and Myself feel this is unbelievable and ridiculous and so so unfair to Daisy,We have been trying to reason with them but for some sick thinking on their part they refuse to believe Daisy was a victim ,Their reasons are varied and they are stubbornly sticking to them and refusing to see the truth,Now they have not only excluded Daisy from their affections but are now excluding Me ,and Judy and Donna have to walk on thin ice to be able to be in contact with them ,in my Opinion that is also ridiculous and Unfair,,So you see it is quite unusual and weird for a few family members to abandon a lovely girl after being molested,in my mind that is just as big a crime as what Robin did, Can you imagine ,being treated so unrespectfully by your sisters husband from a very young age ,having him actually go so far as to rape and treat you as his property, then find courage enough to tell the authorities,g through invasive questioning,finally think justice has been served,and then,have your family turn against you instead of support and comfort you,,Unbelievably that is what happened and is still happening and I am at a loss to understand and am ashamed of how they have treated her, as they should be as well, They owe appoligies and need to grow up and get a handle on what is right and what is wrong,Perhaps my sisters would also like to add to this as there is lots more that should be brought to light,Trying to keep the peace and trying to keep secrets are two different things,I feel we must be honest and truthful an true to ourselves, and if that means bringing others errors and unfairness to light,so be it,,
Posted on: Wed, 03 Jul 2013 13:44:52 +0000