Lets keep it simple.. and statutory: No matter how was right and who was wrong: he or she (AND ESPECIALLY HE) who selects violent behaviours, (and no matter if through physical violence or psychological violence), does not deserve any other occasion and opportunity to re-establish a relationship cause such a relationship will be toxic forever.. We may can forgive if we will.. but he who has been abusive, physically or psychologically violent or both and that says Im going to change for you is actually telling you that he will never change : he will just camouflage himself perhaps, his patterns, showing sort of kindness to mask his own confusions, greed and authoritarian desire to control you.. He may will play semblances of sincere acts of caring in this and that way.. the Mussolinis stick and the carrot trick, and so on.. It will stand for a while, perhaps, and then sooner or later (most likely sooner than later) the whole vortex of irrational things, confusion and violence will represent itself over and over and over and over again.. He (or she) who really wants to change does not say Im going to change, trust me.. does not cling to such hypocrisy and falsity.. He who really wants to change, faces privately and immensely his (or her) own mind and syncopated confused behaviours, his (or her) own conditionings, stupidities, psychological weaknesses or cravings .. and eventually, if its possible, he (or she) just changes ! But this happens so rarely .. _____________________________________ endoffear.weebly/ eofproject.org jessicamystic
Posted on: Sat, 03 Jan 2015 18:51:43 +0000
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