Life is a constant learning experience, and what you do with those lessons will determine just how happy/miserable your life will be. When someone violates your trust, it’s not easy to forget when someone breaks your trust, especially if you fear it might be broken again, but holding onto doubt is a surefire way to suffer. There isnt much that hurts worse than the suspicion that someone else might hurt you. You have to believe someone can treat you with respect and consideration—even if it takes you a while to get there—or else you’ll never let your guard down. That’s a painful place to be. The thing about being defensive is that everything becomes a battle, and no one ever wins. So, begins my new lesson...how can I display forgiveness when forgetting isnt possible? This isnt the kind of thing you can just brush off through positive thinking. You can’t make yourself feel trusting by telling yourself you should be, or rationalizing away your feelings. I have no desire to hold grudges, I have no desire to hold contempt, it really tears me up inside and, in the end, only hurts me. Nothing in life that is worthy, is ever too hard to achieve.
Posted on: Sun, 30 Mar 2014 16:10:55 +0000
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