Lion question: Im not really sure how to go about this but Ill try. Everyone talks about the struggles of being a single parent but no-one ever touches on the difficulties of dating a single parent. Ive been with my girlfriend for 2 years and she has 2 wonderful girls whom I love very much. The problem is that in the last 2 years I havent been able to find employment, I work here and there but nothing to raise a family on, but you see thats not my issue thats her issue. What bothers me is that in the 2 years weve been together shes held onto this notion that if I find a good job everything in life will fall into place, where as I feel like if I get a good job... shell love me more... which kinda hurts. Being the guy coming into a single relationship is tough. Ive put up with so many doubts and obstacles to show them I love them but it doesnt suffice. I watch the girls almost everyday I pick them up from school, I wash her dishes, I make them dinner, but yet she has the nerve to call me her 3rd child. I know Im not perfect but I have tried so hard and Im so confused. You see, my passion in life is my martial arts. I love to train and compete and I used to do both quite frequently but since weve been together Im lucky if I get to train once a week. She says if I love her then I wont call this a sacrifice, but then what do I call it? It feels like a sacrifice. I understand her needs but am I wrong for wanting to pursue my passion? A passion which she absolutely doesnt care for. Am I wasting time here? I am trying to find a debatable view to this instead of a whining one.
Posted on: Thu, 01 Jan 2015 02:00:22 +0000
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