Loss after a relationship is difficult. Whether its lovers or friends, family or a co-worker, no longer having someone in our life can be one of the greatest challenges we face. I think coping with loss is one of our ultimate challenges. I think these things happen to partly remind us that every thing is temporal. At the end of the day, all we are going to truly have is ourselves. These people come into our lives for a short while, to teach us something, to help us with our own self love and validation, and in the blink of an eye they can seemingly vanish. It can feel like there has been a giant whole blown in us, a void that we ache for. I mean this not just for the ones who hold close, but for everyone. For the ones who agitate and irritate us, for the ones who we let get under our skin. These will be your greatest teachers of all. Do not smile higher upon some and look down upon others. Stay strong in your conviction of love yet gentle in your moments of judgment. Every single person you will ever meet, good or bad, is helping re-kindle the fire of your lost soul.
Posted on: Mon, 07 Jul 2014 14:33:49 +0000
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