[email protected] situation Im in a predicament that Ive brought on myself. More of a situationship than a relationship. I have a partner of 12 years. He is good to me, I love him, but not in the way that I feel I should. There was never the initial attraction. I was in a bad place at the time and he was there. Our relationship just developed and I just went along with it. We dont live together but he stays at mine several times a week. He doesnt earn much and is bad at saving. In every other way he is perfect. For the last 5 years I have been having a fling of sorts. The other man lives 400 miles away and I see him maybe three times year. We speak on the phone a couple of times a week. He too has a partner. Neither of us can understand why we cant let each other go. Weve slept together only once which was mind blowing. I cannot even begin to explain the feelings I get about this man. Yet I would not want a relationship with him. I know what he can get up to behind his partners back (hypocritical, I know) but he is selfish and immature in other ways. I want more than anything to feel about my boyfriend, the way I do about my fling. I want to feel that spark about him, to feel as passionate about him as I do with the other but no matter how hard I try, I cant. I went a year without speaking to the other one but we ended up bumping into each other and it all started again. My question is this; what can I do to make myself feel excited about my boyfriend? And how can I remove the emotional attachment to the other? Any help or advice would be very much appreciated. Natasha
Posted on: Mon, 22 Dec 2014 08:32:29 +0000
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