[email protected] situation My current girlfriend with whom Ive been for four weeks now is so clingy that I dontink Ive gone one single hour without her checking on me either by text, phone call, or even smoke signals if she could. Apart from when were asleep of course, its like she needs to know where I am and whats going on down to every detail, or she goes into a sulk and accuses me of either withholding information or playing hard to get. A main factor that I feel pushes me away is that she needs to be hugged, an arm around her, hand held or cuddled - constantly almost all the time (and definately a lot more than I do). Regardless of what mood I may be in at the time, perhaps tired after a long day, or a problem on my mind, constantly get told that Im moody or never put any effort in - when it may be that I just dont feel like a hug/kiss right now. To be honest, being constatly told hug me/you never hug me/you never put effort in/etc etc.. just pushes me away, and makes me feel like I want to do it less (and have done over time - which makes things worse). In fact, its draining and results in just anger. Id like to do it when/because I feel I want to at the time, not because Im constantly told to. If I tell her this, she gets defensive and says its me, and Im just not bothered about her, and never show any affection - resulting in another arguement. If Im tired, why cant I be? Am I being unaffectionate? How do I make understand that I needmy space sometimes without damaging the early stages of our relationship? Dave
Posted on: Tue, 12 Aug 2014 08:23:49 +0000
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