Love this article! I can admit I have made this mistake before because a man had certain qualities I was drawn to, or even because I thought he was such a great person. I learned awhile ago that any man who doesnt move his world to be a part of mine simply isnt that into me, and I need to accept that and move him out of my peripheral so that I am open to the man that sees me as a Queen. I work in an industry that says as a woman I am less than if I dont get 150 likes for an IG post and I am not showcasing my body all the time or wearing overly priced designer clothes. In my world you arent an it girl if you arent surgically enhanced and God forbid you be a woman over 35. (Which FYI everyone eventually will be) Lately I have felt discouraged because there arent many men I meet that value the type of woman I am. I have even been tempted to deal with situations that I know are not in my character. I have entertained the idea, but deep down I know I wouldnt be acting in my own truth. I know I have been laughed at by many of my peers for being consistently single since my divorce. While being single is not my hearts desire, I am happy to remain single until I find the man who sees me the way God sees me (and even those who care about me see me) I refuse to be with someone who enjoys my occasional company or admires my business sense but doesnt see me as a potential Queen. So until that day I will continue to be consistently single and if that makes me the butt of a few jokes, Im cool with that. What I refuse to do is play myself by casting myself in a role I wasnt created for. #runtelldat
Posted on: Fri, 02 Jan 2015 23:44:28 +0000
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