Loving is never a choice - you cannot choose to love something you dont and you cannot choose to stop loving anything you do - however, what you believe is a choice - and what you learn can be a choice - therefore what you know and accept as true is a function of you. Love depends on knowing the beauty of something, and beauty is always a relationship - how parts relate to a whole, and the whole with the universe, but especially as regards our own feelings - the beauty of how something fits with us, and if we dont know our self, or see us as something that doesnt fit with the other, it does not matter how beautiful the other is to us, it is not something beautiful with us, in our opinion in that case. Love also depends on knowing the beauty, because no matter how beautiful anything or anyone is on their own, in any situation or environment or with our own selves, if we do not know the beauty, because of misunderstanding the universe or ourselves or the other person - by choice or habit, we will not love the beauty, nor will we acknowledge it - we will never feel it at all. If we do, we can still choose to distrust the love, because of not knowing what love is, or how much it means. A person that has allowed the expectation of eternal death to impose a negative theology about their life and the significance of what we think real, will distrust even love, to the extent that they hate it as being something that enslaves them, making them want to take care of something other than their own physical comfort and pride during their meaningless existence of devotion to personal wants, because it seems they should, because of self LOVE - the only reason to do anything whether it is worth anything or not - it is the only measure of value we have that gives every other its significance - without love, we have no reason to think about anything, except the possibility of love - which is like, which is love in uncertainty. So, those who distrust love, have left even logic, on the basis that there is no real value, only apparent value, and their own love for themselves is even meaningless, and to escape it is a victory - so doing things that destroy their own self respect is a plus - because they are destroying the thing that makes them feel they have something to lose in death, and therefore they are defeating their fear of it - but they only fear it because they perceive value - because they love - and escaping the fear of death has no value either, except for love of themselves, and wishing to feel better about living. Its twisted self contradictory illogical nonsense to turn on love or to distrust or avoid it, and all those who do so are attempting to cozy up to death, because of cowardice. They are trying to be brave, but if they were, they would be brave in pursuit of love, and they would be brave enough to admit that a life full of love for all the beauty in the world that includes themselves and every other beautiful person who is beautiful with them is what they really need want and require, and they need it forever always. Never give up on love, there is no other value, its lifes purpose, it never dies.
Posted on: Wed, 12 Mar 2014 01:10:40 +0000
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