MY ONE AND ONLY There are many charming and pleasing personalities on the street but your spouse is still your one and only. While you were in school, you had friends and acquaintances but still, you look beyond the facial look of these your numerous friends and you decided to settle with the rare flower you saw in a more conducive and responsible family. There is no doubt that some of the friends you had were more beautiful and handsome than your spouse but your spouse is still your one and only. The reason for unfaithfulness and infidelity is due to wrong priority placed on your spouse. Until you see your spouse as your one and only, you can never get the best from your spouse. Some men complain of nagging wives, is that how she was behaving at first, have you actually looked inward and see the reason for her nagging, how much of your time do you give her, be candid to your self, can she look at your face and conspicuously see affection and accommodation in you? Most times we emphases on the present action and attitude without critically looking at the remote cause of the conflict. Have you asked your, in the first week of my marriage, there was peace and love but now, things are no more the same why, what went wrong, where have I missed it, how have I been treating my spouse of late? Your wife your husband is still and will remain your one and only. i. Lean on the chest of your spouse and feel the warmth. He or she is still sweeter than the honey sold in the market. ii. Live with your spouse, stay under the same roof as much as possible, share the same bed and do not act too spiritual that you have to sleep on separate rooms. iii. Leave others friends or keep distance and cleave to your one and only. iv. Look at the facial look of your spouse and read her mind and feelings and promptly respond to her silent cries. v. Listen to your spouse, do not be too given to talking, so of us are good at talking and poor listeners which is bad. Listen more and speak little. vi. Love your spouse unconditionally. Your love should be obviously, clearly, vividly and conspicuously seen. vii. Labour for the benefits of your one and only viii. Learn from each other, there is something to learn from even if you are a professor and you got married to an illiterate, there is still some thing to learn from. Hope you have not forgotten the story of the professor and the fisher man? ix. Lead the family on a righteous cause, uphold the standard of holiness in your life, language and labour in your family. x. Leverage and influence your spouse to achieve great height in his or her endeavours. from https://facebook/blissfulunion
Posted on: Thu, 22 Jan 2015 08:48:35 +0000
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