Mallikas parents are on the sets, as shown in a promo at the end of last nights episode. This is a great news, with a milestone attached to it for Mallikas future life. It is a bigger turning point in her life, more profound than anything else in the past. How did this miracle happen is a Gods mystery. Let it remain in the realm of God. She reunited with them after 12 long years. Will this miracle occur in my life too. It is approximately the same time that I lost custody of my elder daughter Surabhi in a matter of minutes, like a thunderbolt in Meerut & could never see her again, even while I was raising her as a single father in UK, India for 8 long years. Back to Mallika. My fear is that now Mallika would have to tread on a very very slippery path to maintain that fine line of rope walking that she would need to do every moment from now on wards. I could be her friend, philosopher, guide, mentor, counselor, trainer, coach, motivator, My Man Friday and much more......if she so requires. Else I would continue to do what I have always been doing, empower girls that come in my contact to be like Mallika. I would sure want my 2 daughters to be her carbon copy. My admiration for Mallika is more than she her self or any one else in the world can imagine. & this is not for her physical appearance, or for my pursuit of her being my soul mate in THE BACHELORETTE, or for her fame or money, or for anything that others may or may not be pursuing. I love Mallika for her thoughts, her ideals, her philosophy, her talent, her competency, & above all, even after achieving & having all that would make half of the world look at her in awe, respect, surprise & much more, her ability to empower herself to remain at the grass roots, remain assertive, logical, sensitive, sensible & strong, unconventional female that she is & has been. However on the sets, frequently breaking down, makes me realize she is a bit vulnerable now, just momentarily, then recovers speedily in next few moments to tread on her path of being an independent, empowered woman. She is my ICON> I could write a book , or perhaps many books of what woman empowerment in practice means. I shall continue with this. As I promised to my FB friends that I would give my remarks on the ugly slapping incident on the sets, & completely unacceptable response of every one around, except Mallika , who came out in shining colors, showing her hold on being correct, fair, sensitive & strong woman. Let my remarks wait for a while. For me coming of her parents changes every thing, including my own perception of what she should or should not do. Her space to take her own free decision is gone, gone , gone. Now she has to give a primary consideration to her parents wishes, of what they feel is good or not good for Mallikas future life. Life in India may be very regressive, suffocating, irrational & all negative. I follow this with 2nd installments, lest there is a power cut. Plz wait for a while.
Posted on: Sat, 26 Oct 2013 13:14:08 +0000
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