Man being a parent makes you make hard decisions.... you have to research and thoroughly examine what you believe is right and what you believe is wrong.... it causes arguments with your partner because of 2 different opinions. It also makes you wonder if what you learn and do is right.... but its so exciting as well because the adventure is you dont know everything, and what may be right for you, might not be right for them, and you will learn that along the way. I was always scared of making mistakes because this is a person youre shaping. But we are teaching them, not trying to control them, so if they see that you are learning as you go, that you are human too, then maybe they will learn that mistakes are a part of growing and maturing.... its not about being right all the time, being perfect all the time, its about doing what you feel is right and seeing if its right for them too. If its not thats OK you will learn. There shouldnt be judgement or condemning over your style of parenting. And just to be clear, if you dont have kids and you tell me that what Im doing is wrong, youre an idiot. You dont know the first thing about parenting, and you think I will listen to someone who doesnt have kids? Also, I do my best with what I have and thats what all good parents do, their best. Logan has only ever felt love, and will only ever feel love. This baby will also only ever feel love, I will love them both the way they need, and do what will help them and protect them in the end. Sorry ranting again... had a moment where someone had said some horrible things about my parenting.... when one of them dont have kids and the other one does everything to be away from hers..... and she calls them assholes....
Posted on: Tue, 12 Aug 2014 21:49:12 +0000