Married Sisters: Sometimes to better ourselves as wives we have to do a checklist and review that list from time to time. Sometimes, we as women can become so selfish by only thinking about our OWN rights, our OWN emotions..just all together that me me me mentality and attitude...or doing research on what YOU deserve and what YOUR rights are only. Not realizing that by doing so, you can be neglecting your spouses rights and forgetting the haqq he has upon you! SubhanAllah which will only make things 1000x worse for you...but in a sick twisted way some women think itll make their situation better by feeding this to their own minds, spouses mind and perhaps getting pity from outsiders forgetting that it takes TWO to tango and not realizing A,B and C is what is ruining their marriage/home. Ask yourselves for example: Am I pleasing Allah azza wa jall? Am i being that obedient wife I SHOULD be at all times? HAVE I failed as a wife? How CAN I better MYSELF? And so and so forth.. A lot of us women tend to point our fingers and are good at blaming our spouses or loved ones quick without self evaluating first. Some dont do this because its easier to point their fingers then deal with their OWN sickness within their hearts. Alhamdulilah the best thing you can do to better YOURSELF or YOUR situation is first through reminders like this by keeping yourself in check & keeping your eyes on the prize which is #Akhirah and inshAllah see your whole world turn around biithnillahi taala 💜
Posted on: Thu, 04 Dec 2014 04:46:57 +0000
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