Men are getting the short end of the stick. This isnt to say that women arent in the same boat but I hear so many people saying that the we need to be a real man and grow up and put much of the blame on our shoulders. Being a man, I can honestly say that we bear so much responsibility (whether we voice it or not) sometimes we are choking in it. Its so overbearing trying to be a good provider and protector knowing we arent getting the job done. Which causes us to not feel like a man. Do you actually think we play games and hang out with the guys because we dont want to take responsibility? Its because we are scared to death and its our only escape from reality (even though we know its temporary and it doesnt truly fix anything). Its our only escape to feel like a man to win at something and to be appreciated. I am not here to say this is right because clearly its not. However, if you can understand your man and continue to lift him up, instead of tearing him down, you will be the one who truly benefit. Women, you are the best person to encourage and lift your husband/boyfriend up. You need to find something he does well and encourage him, not for a week or a month but continually till he dies. Then he will find the courage to go and start winning. Men, I know how it feels to be a man in todays world. Its not easy to be a man when we dont feel like a man. Know you are created for greatness and you have it within you to make an impact for your family. Dont count on your wife, friends, family or the govt. Count on God who will strengthen you. Believe in yourself. #GoFreedom #Realmen #6Saturdays #JohnandAngela please Like and Share
Posted on: Thu, 11 Sep 2014 16:55:44 +0000