Mentoring Men: OK, I could give an awesome intro, but I want this to be a post not a note, so read and decide for yourself what kind of man you are or want to be. 1. You are not a man because a woman said you are a real man. You are a man – period. You don’t need validation from women to affirm your manhood. 2. Make your own fortune: Bring home the bacon or pig. Men don’t settle for handouts wealthy dads dont count, If you inherit a fortune, then show you are a real man and multiply it 10 times. 3. Pay the bills: With fellow men, contribute your % of the bill, with women, pay the entire bill, which means you take her to the places you can afford... or start calling Maina Kageni early. 4. Make decisions: Ask for advice, consult, but make sure the final decision is yours, good or bad. Nothing is as irritating as an indecisive man even to other men #watermelon 5. Your word, your bond: A man is known for the choices he makes (decisions) and the words he speaks. Say it and mean it, and am not saying be right... When you make a promise, keep it! Men respect men who keep their word, women love them. 6. Follow and Lead: Find someone you can follow, and find someone you can lead. We all follow someone and lead others. You become a better leader when you teach the lessons you learn from following others. 7. Stop idealizing women: Who lied to us that women are perfect?. They are not angels, and the minute you put a halo around her head, you completely fail to notice her flaws. You my friend will call Maina Kageni 8. Being in touch with your feminine side #fail: Ok, every time I meet Christian men coming from Church and they have to say hi, they have a soprano voice, "Hi… It’s so nice to see you!". Can we stop the nonsense? There is nothing Christian about talking with a high pitch voice. .. Ok, I \_ down. 9. Be Clean! - Scrub twice, rinse, use ka deodorant kidogo. PS: dont smell like a flower, that will send the wrong message 10. Find a spiritual anchor: A man who knows God will always have a very good GPS to find his way back to himself. Finding God does not mean you won’t fail, just means you will get up faster and smarter. So if you are a dude and you agree with this collection then I say share this and add your own guiding rule in the process and mentor others
Posted on: Wed, 10 Jul 2013 10:17:20 +0000
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