Mistakes Many of us believe that we have made many mistakes in our lives. We believe that if we haven’t made those mistakes, our lives right now would be much better. If I have married another person, if I have lived in a different city, if I have chosen a different career, if I have planned more carefully, if I have done this, not done that, so on and so forth. We make these assumptions based on the belief that if I picked A, B would definitely happen, and I somehow have absolute control over the outcome. We blame ourselves for not picking the right choices, thus believing that Life is a series of mistakes. What we overlook is that, we can only have control on what we do; we have no control over the outcome. We can only do the best we can, but we cannot make demand on an absolute outcome in Life. Even if we have the ability to time travel, there is still no guarantee that the choice we make will result in a more favorable outcome. When we guilt ourselves all the time for making past mistakes, we will inevitably be very judgmental and critical of everyone around us, because we are projecting our own perceived flaws onto others. Relax, it’s ok. Once we have learned whatever valuable from our past actions, it’s ok let it go now because it doesn’t serves us anymore. Holding onto the false beliefs of the mistake we made will only give it more power, and preventing us from further growth and expansion. Give yourself a break, and you will give the whole world a break.
Posted on: Sat, 17 May 2014 19:19:19 +0000
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