Mixed feelings.... [[f9.sad]] :( :( :( :( :( :( I know a woman that changes her househelp/maids like 5times a year. Their age ranges between 8-11. The reason why she likes them young, according to her they wont seduce her husband and they wont maltreat or abuse her children. When she brings these children home, they look fine and well presentable, and when she takes them back, they look mal-nourished and with life time scars that they will never forget in a hurry... This is a woman that, if her child is flogged in school by the class teacher maybe a general punishment thats given to all the pupils in the class, she will stomp the school and cause a scene... If you as a neighbor beat the child (better run away from the compound :D or else ) Thats why when her last son was close to the WELL (where water is drawn, nobody held him, until he fell inside, and that was the end) I wasnt there, came back and heard he dead ::: very sad and I liked that boy o :( Thats that for that... Now this is a woman that hates when you touch her children but she disfigures other children and give them scars... Thrice she has been arrested by the police cause ppl reported her cause of the way she treats her maids.. I remember I started being scared of her when she used a hot iron rod to dip inside the vagina of her maid of 10years old cause she said the girl wakes up late (4am) and this girl sleeps 1am... That single act made me fear her in a bad way... The reason Im sharing this... Ppl tend to treat their children like eggs but treat other children like biscuit wrapper... I havent in my life seen a woman treat her maid like a daughter, I havent seen a woman/man treat a maid like family to the extent that ppl wont believe he/she is a maid/help... Even when they are going to church or an outing, you can always single out the housemaids from the way they are dressed, the way the bags will be heaped on them, the way they walk, the way they talk... Gradually, without these ppl knowing, they are making these kids(maids) lack self confidence, they have low esteem, they lack love, hatred grows, they have fear for the unknown... How would you feel if someone treats your kids how you treat others.??? I have seen kids of 8-10 go through hardship, have seen kids get exposed to the hard life... I grew up in the ghetto,we face hard life everyday, plus the hard life they will face in these houses... A kid of 8years is been giving lifetime scars he will never forget in his/her life... I have never seen a woman treat maids nicely.... Never!!! Rather they nuture their kids with balanced diets, fruits, toys and good schools... Its only by the grace of God they send maids to school... I know a good number of you do it or are thinking of it... Some are nursing mothers, they will leave a new baby in the care of a small kid... When you were small, is this the training you got? When the baby cries, they say the maids beat them or they beat the maids cause the baby is crying and they force the crying maid to make a crying baby stop crying... How is that possible??? You should know that... You are taking life from someone when you do that... You are telling them, life is ntn cause you are a maid.. You forget tables turn... You forget you dont own your life... You forget the way you treat another persons child someone will treat yours too.. You forget it will be too much for these kids to take and then when they are tired... YOUR BABYS LIFE IS IN THEIR HANDS.... THINK!!!!!
Posted on: Fri, 08 Nov 2013 05:48:21 +0000
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