Mom Post: Please post.. Thank you in advance. Hi, Ive posted in here once before. Im a BM of 1, SM of 1 and one on the way with DH. Small back story, DH has custody of SS, 7, due to mom voluntarily signing custody over. She only has visitation as deemed agreeable shes been in and out of SS life from day one. Ive been around since 2 months before he was 3. Needless to say I have raised him more then her. DH is stationed in TX for military, and BM is in another state. My self and the kids are living with my parents in TX while DH does his duties. We just received paperwork to modify the current order. Before we left, BM refused to agree to anything in mediation. Im ok with setting up a parenting plan. We have a lawyer, but who knows how long it will take. Thanksgiving is coming soon, and when BM and SS talk on the phone she tells him how excited she is to see him for thanksgiving. Her and DH havent even discussed a visit over thanksgiving and DH said no visits till after court is settled, to me. Him and her do not talk very often and she refuses to talk to me. Is it wrong of me to tel SS that there is a chance he wont be able to go see her because 1) BM hasnt talked to DH about bit and 2) we arent paying for him to go up there because its her responsibility (according to the order we asked for no child support but her to be responsible for out if state visitation costs) and 3) I cant take him because I will have a new born baby. I feel bad telling him this, but Im trying to avoid heart break and any further disappointment from her and let him know up front that she isnt being responsible in how she is handling this. SS has no idea we are going to end up in court, and I prefer to keep it that way. 7 year olds dont need to help. What would you do in this situation?? Thanks again. RP ~Cadi~ No Bashing Please
Posted on: Tue, 29 Oct 2013 11:00:09 +0000
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