Morning Reminder. Tuesday. 10th day of Safar. How to treat our wives well for Allah sake. For some times now Ive had a lot of complaints from sisters as to how bad their husbands treat them or how unhappy they are in their marriages. I therefore took my time through reading scholars advices on how to handle marriages to come up with todays reminders. If you are married or planning to marry as a brother then dont miss any line and lets fear Allah in handling our wives well for Allah sake bcs we will account for how we treated them to Allah. Marriage is a trust from Allah if not I will not spend lots of money and time and cater for my daughter as Im doing now then you use few months with under 1% of my expenditure on her to take her to your house and with little mistake then you start treating her like an animal. I swear by Allah I hate to hear men treating their wives badly and Ive been talking to many married couple to remind them about their responsibilities as husbands and wives. I can understand sometimes due to satanic influences and lack of dua and Zikir by both sides, Satan get the best out of us. But thats not an excuse to maltreat your wife. Marriages today need to be armed with sufficient armor against the severe onslaught of fitnahs (satanic influences). Your wife not conceiving is not her fault my brother, she doesnt have any ability to conceive by her will, only Allah grant children to those He wishes. Lets avoid to so called Maalams using evil jinns to start telling you lies, trust in Allah, be payable bcs children are even trials for us, did our mother the beloved wife of the greatest man on earth our beloved messenger of Allah had any child? Whats your problem brother? Lets Always emulate the behavior of the Prophet Muhammad PBUH, with his wives: Allah says in the Quran: You have indeed in the Messenger of Allah, a beautiful example (of conduct) for anyone whose hope is in Allah and the Final Day, and who remembers Allah much. Quran - 33:21. The Prophet Muhammad PBUH, overlooked his wives shortcomings, and tolerated their unreasonable behavior. The books of ahadith are replete with examples of how he ignored what he did not like about their actions, with a smile and patient silence. Instead of shouting or verbally reprimanding your wife for every mistake, just ignore her. If she is fighting with you or being unreasonable, you can always leave the room and not answer back, which is the best strategy. When you will ignore her for some time, she will willingly relinquish the behavior which angered you. TO BE CONTINUED IN SHAA ALLAH. May Allah aid us to take good care of our wives. Aameen.
Posted on: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 09:42:56 +0000
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