Morning Reminder. Wednesday. 11th day of Safar. Treating husbands well for Allah sake. Allah says: Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husbands absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husbands property, etc.)., ... [Noble Quran 4:34]. The verse seems to present a great right of the husband over the wife. Upon deeper thought, it is clear that this verse actually points to a right of the wife and an obligation of the husband. The word for in charge of in Arabic indicates also support, protection and responsibility on the part of the husband for his wife. This does not just mean that he is the boss or the dictator in the house and whatever he says goes. Rather, it means that he has a heavy obligation to lead his family. Remember the hadith of the Prophet, where in one version of the hadith about the shepherds, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) continues: ...until the man will be asked about the people in his household: did he establish among them the law of Allah or did he allow it to become lost?. Likewise, Muslim women must learn to accept this situation and this ruling of Allah Most High. They should resist becoming like the disbelieving women, particularly in the West, who are trying to take over as head of the household or think that it should be shared equally between the two spouses. The rapid degeneration and disappearance of the institution of marriage since the spreading of this corrupt belief is the clearest proof of all that it is not only against Allahs order and His plan for us, but also against human nature and completely out of touch with reality and unworkable. I believe that the latest figures are that over HALF of the children in the U.S. are being raised in single-parent homes! Women who follow the kuffar and their own desires in being jealous of the mans role and trying to claim some or all of it for themselves abandon the husband and rely on government support in raising the children in a fatherless manner which is basically against the rules of Allah. TO BE CONTINUED IN SHAA ALLAH. May Allah aid our sisters to act as Muslim women for Allah sake. Aameen.
Posted on: Wed, 03 Dec 2014 09:36:02 +0000
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