Most of us need some support in asking for what we want. When we are involved in making agreements, we need to feel sure that the needs we reveal will not be held against us. Most of us feel pretty vulnerable in and around our emotional limits, so it’s important to recognize that these limits are valid: “I need to feel loved,” “I need to feel that I’m important to you,” “I need to know that you find me attractive,” “I need you to listen and care about me when I feel hurt.” ― Dossie Easton, The ethical slut : a practical guide to polyamory, open relationships & other adventures
Posted on: Sat, 24 Jan 2015 04:43:09 +0000