Mothers ..... Stop allowing your relationship with your childrens father determine your childs relationship with their father..... Do you not know that one thing does not have anything to do with the other..... A split up with couples should never mean a split up with one parent or the next. Mothers allow your child to have a relationship with his or her father even though the two of you no longer have a partnership with your own emotions...... Mothers do you not know that children who are put in the middle are left with emotional scars that develop into mental scars that limits productive growth..... Stop using your children as pawns..... Allow them a chance to develop their own assessment on their own facts and knowledge .... Then be there to help them understand it all.. I know that some situations may warrant keeping your children away .... And there are some situations where its not you but the father who chooses to stay away..... Im speaking to those mothers who are in a jealousy frizzy.... Who will keep the child away simply because you are not in the mans life.... WHO refuse to see right.... Who refuse to give their child what they need.... Which is their fathers presence in their life....... Your childs need/s should always be superior to your own..... Stop limiting your childs growth.....!!!! And I know many single moms say..... I was father and mother..... No..... We were mothers with absent fathers doing the best we can to raise our children..... I can never ( nor you) be a father cause I will never be a man..... Women and men think differently ..... Making it impossible for me to be a father to my children..... Therefor Dont you be the one to close that door......allowed their father to be a father ...... If not then let him be the one to close that door...... Not you..... That also mean the negative talk..... The truth always comes to light..... Let the truth be truth and let your words remain unspoken..... We hurt our children with our negative comments..... The bottom line..? Youre not hurting him..... Youre actually hurting your children...... Stop hurting your children!!!! Its called CHILD ABUSE!!!!!! And..... Fathers ..... stop the dysfunctional behaviors.... Be fathers to your children so that they can grow and flourish ..... Your children need your presence in their life just as much as your money to sustain their livelihood ..... Your children grows from whatever you as parents put in...... If its junk, negativeness, hatred, disrespect and disloyalty ...... Then guess what.... Youre gonna have very dysfunctional children...... Your children are what you make them..... Put in whats good ..... The outcome will also be good...... Because it was the foundation FOR GROWTH...... Train a CHILD.......
Posted on: Sun, 31 Aug 2014 13:30:28 +0000
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