Must send to your children.. Beautiful letter written by a father to his son? Must send to your children... > Following is a letter to his son from a renowned Hong Kong TV broadcaster cum Child Psychologist. The words are actually applicable to all of us, > young or old, children or parents.! This applies to daughters too. All parents can use this in their teachings to their > children. > Dear son > I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons > 1. Life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable, > nobody knows how long he lives. Some words are better said early. > 2. I am your father, and if I dont tell you these, no one else will. > 3. What is written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps > could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches. Remember the > following as you go through life 1. > Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. > No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother > and I. > To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and > ALSO you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a > motive for every move. When a person is good to you, it does not mean he > really likes you. You have to be careful, dont hastily regard him as a real friend. > 2. No one is indispensable, nothing is in the world that you must possess. > Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life > when people around you dont want you anymore, or when you lose what/who you love most. > 3.Life is short. When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that > life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life. > 4.Love is but a transient feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and > with ones mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness. > Dont over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love,and dont over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love. > 5.A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does > not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life. > One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from some rags! > 6.I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither > would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a > supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you > want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor. > 7.You honour your words, but dont expect others to be so. You can be good to > people, but dont expect people to be good to you. If you dont understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles. > 8. I have bought lotteries for umpteen years, but I could never strike any prize. Thatshows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch! > 9. No matter how much time I have with you, lets treasure the time we > have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life. Your papa
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