My ABCs of Attraction deal with more crippling limiting beliefs than any other PUA company out there. Im talking about men with emotionally crippling social anxiety from a lifetime of neglect, internalized racism, and self doubt. And at times like that, I almost wish that I taught normal bootcamps with white and black students. Because every time I teach those clients, we are bagging girls left and right with ridiculous ease. Its all skill and technique which are easily taught. I look at other bootcamps and see how easy they have it while my trainers and I are utterly wiped every Monday because of how emotionally draining it is and how much we have to give of ourselves personally to our students above and beyond the normal call of duty. I almost say to myself, Man I wish I had it easy as those white guys. Bootcamps would be a cinch and we wouldnt have to deal with anyone crying and having emotional breakdowns. But then I see one of my students experience a complete paradigm shift. You can see that moment, that spark of understanding in his eyes When He Finally Gets It. He transforms from a passive, weak Asian boy and into a strong, confident Asian Man right before my very eyes. And that makes everything worth it. I almost wish I taught the easy bootcamps. But I never actually do.
Posted on: Mon, 11 Aug 2014 16:32:40 +0000