My blogs/notes arent working, sorry folks. Heres a little something: I call this one, #1 Progress Hindering Trait A common trait that will hinder your growth as a human being is undoubtedly playing off the role of the victim in problems that you get yourself in. Unfortunately, those who continually do this probably WONT ever know they do it, because it has become so much a part of their nature, that theyve become accustomed to thinking this behavior is Normal. It doesnt matter what religion or spiritual beliefs you hold either; Its even more unsettling when people use quotes(whether Christian in nature, New-Age, or downright made up) to justify their manipulative behaviors and improper communication skills so that they dont have to change. Friends, the biggest one youre hurting is yourself. Youre the one that lives with yourself, and will probably repeat the behavior later on down the line, if not immediately! We are creatures of habit, and we keep doing what weve always done. Not only that, but we keep getting the results weve always gotten. Life is a story you tell yourself, right down to the roles that you and assign others. Youll find that you PROJECT your beliefs onto other people so that they can fit the story you tell yourself; Whatever you see goes through a filter that allows you to see what you want to see, to keep on feeding the story. Why cant I just change?! is a question weve all asked ourselves. What Ive found?! :We dont change because we want to keep the story alive, we dont want to embrace uncomfortable freedom, but wed rather be tied down by comfortable chains. Our brain becomes LAZY because were not challenging it to think outside the box. Remembe0r, people dont say things for no reason. The hardest point to accept is that you just well might, be in fact, WRONG. The mind is an wonderful creation , and youll never see it spring so gracefully into action than when it is fighting evidence that it needs to change. Drop the ego ;)
Posted on: Sat, 15 Mar 2014 09:04:11 +0000
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