My marriage is just 1 year and few days old,but within the last 365 days,I have seen torment and hell on daily basis. We dated for 2 years before tying the knot,shes a nice person,but her mouth is destructive,she has this overbearing attitude,always trying to control me or dictate the pace,and can keep malice,anger and record of evil done to her for a long time. Shes the type of person that talks very well,I mean convincely well,but unfortunately,she speaks more negative words. She can talk for hours non-stop,especially when provoked,saying all sorts of bad words. She has threatened to kill me & send assassins after me on different occasions in the past,though I just ignored such threats. My wife has been abusing me verbally and always say nasty things at every slightest provocation and at the same ready to engage me in fisticuffs. She can really say unprintable words such as it will not be well with you,as you go out,people will deal with you, you will work like an elephant and eat like an ant, this your certificate will never yield you any good thing, etc, name callings,abuses,curses etc. Please Nairalanders, I will like to know if it is wrong or out of place for a working class married lady to assist her husband in paying some bills or buying some foodstuffs at home. Because,anytime she assists in doing anything,she will record it and consequently use that to abuse and insult me whenever we have misunderstanding and or exchange of words. After our traditional marriage on December 2013,I had some financial challenges,and then my rent was due for renewable,she offered to assist,at first I was skeptical about it ,because I know her kind of person,knowing full well that she will use that to ridicule and abuse me in no distant time. But,then,I didnt have any alternative,so I allowed her pay d rent. Now,shes claiming ownership,saying ...which house,the one that I have been paying the rent or another one... She has done a lot of character assassination & damages to my personality before some of her relatives & family members(Her father and two sisters),thus they all support her & no longer regard me as anybody. Few months into our marriage,she started wearing butt pads, I told her to stop ,because I dont like the stuff,but she flared up and we had exchange of words. She told me that she has to look good to outsiders. Throughout her pregnancy period,she wore the butt pads on daily basis even at home,I allowed her because of her condition,even though it looked disgusting on her. After she put to bed,and few days later, I told her to quit wearing that stuff, but she refused,then I seized it,she started ranting to the hearing of everyone at home & neighbors that I have taken her padded pants(aka butt pad) to native doctor. I just ignored her. Few days later, she bought another set. On Xmas day(2014),she dressed up & wore the butt pads again,I told her to remove it ,but she refused,then i tried forcing her to do so,and that resulted to a serious fight. She tore my already ironed clothes to pieces(an expensive Indian attire I bought when I travelled to India),I tore hers too and forced the butt pads out from her body. Hell was let loose that day,because she called her sisters,they came to my house and created a very nasty scene in my neighborhood,they insulted,ridiculed me and made a mockery of me,her elder sister who is a police officer threatened to deal with me,she was talking and hitting her hands on the ground saying that,they are going to teach me some bitter lessons in this town. I tried to respond but my Mum,whos on childs visit(Omugwo) asked me to hold my peace. It wasnt easy though,they also insulted her too. Since that day till date,my wife doesnt talk to me. The only thing that connects us now is the new born baby. #2bcontinued
Posted on: Sun, 04 Jan 2015 18:43:09 +0000
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