My next few Facebook posts are going to be in response to the typical questions Ive been receiving in my inbox. How to cope with past relationships? Firstly, stop feeling guilty about things not working out with your ex. Relationships are beautiful when we enter them and should be equally beautiful when we leave them, otherwise they would not be ending. When you are exiting a relationship consider: What have you learned about yourself? What did you enjoy most? What did this teach you about the qualities youd like to have in a future partner? How has this journey impacted your life for the better? What new desires have sprung from the exiting of this relationship? Relationships are rarely about your partner. They are more about how you choose to experience your partner. If it didnt work out - its probably because you needed to go through a particular life experience to learn something incredibly powerful that will have a positive impact on your future. Once you acknowledge that people break up all the time, and that you are not a sinner for exiting a relationship, then you can start asking yourself what went right? rather than asking yourself what went wrong? Im not denying that pain and grief are a part of the process, but at some point you need to get your head out of your ass and move on :) Loving you unconditionally, Noreen.
Posted on: Thu, 07 Nov 2013 14:30:25 +0000
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