Never let anyone (family, friend, significant other, ANYONE) tell you they love you and care for you but that its your fault they hurt you and that you feel used by them (or worse, tell you its all in your head) because you made the choice to let them do it and that you need to accept the blame for that. You can admit and accept the responsibility for the mistake of trusting someone that never should have been trusted but in no way should you EVER accept responsibility for their actions! No one knowingly makes a decision to let anyone hurt them. We think, in the moment we choose someone over ourselves, that were actually trusting someone who can and should be trusted and we make those decisions based on what theyve presented to us as truth. The moment the other person cant or wont accept (or AT LEAST SHARE) the responsibility for hurting you and tries to force you to accept whats happened as something youve done alone, and then tells you its not something they want to about, its time to wake up and get the hell out of dodge! youtu.be/GvgjG9RxX7c
Posted on: Thu, 21 Aug 2014 12:54:01 +0000
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